100% agree with you but it happens far too often on the game to be realistic. I just lost 2-1 at home to Northampton after have 23 shots on target and hitting the woodwork 6 times.
Seriously people, play matches in 2D mode and it cuts out all the bugs in the ME. Still doesn't prevent you from going on a 5 game unbeaten streak and then losing 6-0 at home the side who are bottom in the league and haven't scored in their last 5. But hey ho, thats just FM and its preset results.
I'm playing as Portsmouth at the moment. Doing well in the league (despite several financial constraints of which I'm sure you're all aware of lol) sitting 6th, but I'm leaking goals for fun. I always concede early on and have to battle back. I also seem to concede from every attacking set piece...