The thing is lads the people with 12.02 or .04 are more than likely to have the pirated version which was uncrackable for 12.1.1. So they can only play against each other. They can say about steam not updating but thats bs, its built into the game this year. You 2 should start your own game. LeedsUtd, if you create a network on hamachi or portfoward if you know how to fiddle with your router. Make a server and password u give those details to whoever you want in the game, they then put in your IP v4 address into the join network bit on FM. You also have to create a server in FM also it will be in network settings, have fixtures to sat and wednesday and take move for tv off otherwise your be waiting around when you should be playing at the same time as it will be quicker. Good luck.
Edit:Also if you d/l LFC Marshall's update your game will be up to date with transfers etc. The host only needs to have this.