No, but I myself happen to think that it's quite impossible to talk with your players in this game. Actually, this just happened to me: I told Xavi that he would be a wonderful coach in the future. He then tells me that he could start right away. But, even though appreciating his enthousiasm, I just say that the time has not come yet. Right. Then, he ends the conversation and is now mad at me.
I don't know, but considering the fact that apparently, players seem to be quite often irritated by some subjects in the private discussions, even when you want to congratulate them, the point of having private conversations with them is close to pointless.
By the way, how long exactly does the player stay mad at you after he didn't react well at a private chat?