In England, I would choose.....
Man United
Arsenal
Southampton
Middlesbrough
Italy are not known for the catera-esque style. They usually sign players from other clubs at younger age. ALthough notable clubs that have the required facilities are Inter and Roma.
French clubs have the best facilities IMO, some clubs with the top-end are..
O. Lyon
Stade Rennais
PSG
AS Monaco
Auxerre
RC Lens
Montpellier
Sochaux
SM Caen
Havre AC
Nantes
Metz