Feel a little better because i'm in the exact same position, just played Arsenal with my Liverpool side, had 28 shots, 68% possession and scored one goal, they had 6 shots, 32% and scored THREE!!!
Man marking may as well not exist, there is next to no defensive control, i usually have an Anchor Man set as my playmaker so he picks up the ball from the defence and plays a simple pass to any of the midfielders...can't do that anymore because of the ridiculous adherence to "player roles"
And i'm not even going to start on the madness that is "Match Preparation"....it's insane, i really hope people at SI read these forums or, you know....play the game and see for themselves!