Firstly, these results are actually rather similair, especially i using à tactic that is slightly more expressive and/or attacking so it DOES seem that you are using à tactic that is using your players really well. But being in Control Of events also includes making small chances all the time, just like your AI opponent does. If some Of your players starts Of poor and get anxious and nervous whilst some o the opponents seem really confident, then there is à big chance that this scenario Will continue through out the game.
By the looks Of it, you are in Control Of most things but when things dont go your way, you have no plan B and C, something that all managers have ( might nog be à good plan though).
So My question is, when you fail to score despite having possession and chances, how do you react to the fact that your players seems to be frustrasted and the opponents looks confident ?
Look at last weeks game between Arsenal - Swansea. Would you say that the result would have been different if one Of the Swansea defenders har made à defensive error in the 5th minute and Arsenal had scored from it? Would Swansea still have won with 2 goals if Arsenal har equalised from à corner in the 89th minute. Would Swansea had won 2-0 if Jenkinson had not been tired ànd made à poor call ?
To be able to correct things on the pitch, its crucial to watch atleast Extended highlights and pause every now and then to look at the match stats.
This is the thing is and i totally agree that any game would be different if there was a goal after 5 minutes to if there wasnt, but would you not expect the game to be similar if in real life you could rewind time to just before kick off and erase the first game from the memory of the players and replay the game just like in fm. The manager and coaches would have prepared the players for the game again the same, would talk to them the exact same about the game, the players football education would be the same so jenkinson for example will still play like jenkinson and make the same decisions on the pitch he doesnt turn into sagna and play like him if they played the game 3 days later or the day after. His performances would of changed because he would of learnt from the previous game, the manager and coaches would approach the game different ,his preparation for the game might of been different he might of had an argument with the mrs just before the first game or not had a good nights sleep etc which will all effect his performances. On saturday the Arsenal team as a whole would of still been low on confidence and anxious about the game and Swansea would come with the same game plan again believing they can get a result . Basically I think that if time was rewound to 3pm on saturday that swansea would win the game again and the match would follow a similar trend