Maybe you just need new friends that don't give a **** about phones, rather than getting so aggravated about it. To be fair, my blackberry was awful, but I paid like £20 less a month for it than I do my iPhone. I suppose you didn't pay as much for your blackberry, as you would have if you have purchased an iPhone, I am not debating that you could have afforded one, but the fact that you consciously decided on the choice of the cheaper option kind of devalues your argument. You may argue that the iPhone isn't as good as a blackberry, and in some cases, it's not, but the general consensus of peoples opinion on the 'iPhone v Blackberry' is that the iPhone is superior, which would also be my personal opinion after owning both. So, given this, you would be paying more for the better product, which is the same in pretty much any product comparison. Do £120 Nike boots make you play better than £20 Diadoras? No. Does wearing a £300 leather jacket make you look cooler than a £50 faux leather jacket? Probably not.
People can buy what they like, if you judge someone else on the phone they use, like you seem to be doing with the whole 'iPhone users are all elitist *****', then you are also extremely shallow. I personally couldn't give a **** what phone my friends have, as long as they can text and call me, they could be using a 3310 for all I care. Also, sorry, but what are you on about with 'calling your phone an iPhone', that's it's name? Blackberry users call theirs a 'Blackberry'. In general conversation, I have never heard anyone refer to their iPhone as 'iPhone', but rather 'phone', compared to people that consistently call their blackberry a 'blackberry', which it is, so I am unsure why you have an issue with that, apart from the obvious prejudices you have towards people with an iPhone.