sorry to raiken i seen some of your posts in the forum and they where pretty helpful
no worries bud
I can understand your frustration and it affecting your moods on the forum, it happens to a lot of people so I do not take anything personally, its just an internet forum.. but I do take FM seriously and I am always here to help anyone where I can and provide as much assistance and guides/templates etc as possible for you the members as I possibly can
the thing it seems and sounds like with you is that:
1) you have lost the "flair" to play the game properly, I get that, it happens a lot, I had, everyone has it, but Fm13 I have yet to have it as the game is so more complex than before and you really can get into a save
2) I suggest starting with a much harder team and learn to take defeats on the chin! you WILL lose in real life and most certainly lose in the game! just because some people are going unbeaten etc does not mean that because you are United (who I support with all my heart and have for 22 years) you will do the same. So when you lose, move on, forget about it, do not restart, do not rage quit and persevere.. it will make the game so much more enjoyable and when you do start winning, so much more rewarding
3) do not always buy superstar players, look at United, we have Carrick (who I have always rated extremely highly) who people thought he was a **** player, Evans, Cleverley, Anderson, Welbeck etc, these are all good squad players and you need this in FM, you need a good squad, not GOOD players if you know what I mean.. buy in players that suit your tactics and approach and not just buy Ter-Stegen (who has a few faults as a keeper, Alaba who has many faults as a LB) and the Vidal's etc..
4) look around the forum as I said the other day, there is so much info here it's scary, especially instead of posting new threads for each question you have, you are more than welcome to start one thread (which TBH did to another member some time ago who was struggling, he asked everything he could in one thread and wherever anyone could help, we jumped in and assisted him)
5) PM me if you need anything or PM TBH/Mike as well as they both know a thing or two about the game
Mike especially knows a lot about the actual Match engine and also has good tactical knowledge
take it easy, chat in the morning