I'm going to say this one last time. The ME will not initiate a counter situation unless you have a Defensive or Counter mentality. It definitely will not happen with a Standard mentality. It won't.
Deep players playing it forward to a player in space =/= a counter situation. A counter situation is when you have a certain ratio of attackers vs defenders. Simple as that. During that counter situation, mentality and tempo is at maximum so you'll see even Support Duty players bombing forward. THAT is a counter situation. A Standard mentality doesn't do this. You can check. It doesn't. English is my 2nd language, but I cannot explain it any clearer than that.
As for your comment on my tactic - I will repeat myself again for the last time: I increased my Counter opportunities, ffs. I was too deep and struggled to win the ball because we invited too much pressure. We were a mid-table quality team, remember. I pushed higher up, BUT WE WERE STILL DEEP, just outside the penalty area. That meant we still had lots of space to counter in. We started winning the ball MORE (which means MORE counter opportunities :O) and this was helped by the fact that we were compressed just outside the box and tackling hard. We didn't have the pace compared to the top teams. We didn't have positioning compared to the movement off the ball by the top teams. What we did have, was numbers and good tackling attributes. It's simple and basic.
Next, Counter mentality is ideally set up for counter attacking football as odd as that sounds given the ambiguous name.
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It features a fairly deep D-Line and fairly low closing down - perfect to draw in the opposition. It also has direct passing by the defenders and Defend duty midfielders to encourage the ball being played forward quickly and short passing by the attackers to hold possession, especially if there isn't a counter opportunity. Control is the opposite of this - making it a stupid choice if you want to counter attack - especially because the counter attack tick box is not ticked under the hood.
I've now tried my best to be as clear as possible. If you want to discuss further, fine. If you're going to continue sticking your fingers in your ears, then I'm out.