i cant get my kits into the game either
hmmm...thats what happens when you request too many kits. Anyway
Delete any kits of the same club you had before.
Then copy my file with your kits to sports interactive-graphics-kits
change that setting in preferences (Sorry, forgot which one, im not on fm now)
and check if it works and in future pm me if they do not work. I think Dan said that earlier in the kit thread