United's wingers are much better than our own. Basically because we have no out and out wingers, Kuyt and Babel were converted from strikers to wingers, Benayoun is an attacking midfielder who mainly plays as a winger for us, the only out and out winger at Liverpool is probably Nabil El Zhar. Aquliani showed glimpses of a really good midfielder last season, mainly in the last 4/5 games and I for one would like him to stay at Liverpool (he already said he wants to stay, to repay the fans for their support). However both Fiorentina and Juventus are showing an interest and whoever takes charge could well choose to take 10/12 Million for him.
In response to your question is basically neither. I don't want to play this boring, slow build up game we have been playing for the last 10 seasons but as you said I wouldn't want us to go too attacking. I'd prefer an attacking game though. First things first though we need to keep our best players. We need to see what sort of squad we have next season before we decide on how we want to line-up. If we sell Torres and Gerrard and don't sign decent replacements, then yes I would prefer us to grind out results but hopefully our main players will stay.