Sorry, but I can't not reply to this ignorance. Have you actually seen some of the destruction and recklessness that De Jong produces when he plays?
USA vs Holland - De Jong breaks Stewart Holden's leg in a friendly with a reckless tackle, and doesn't even apologise afterwards.
World Cup Final - Ninja kicks Xabi Alonso in the chest completely on purpose, along with other dangerous challenges throughout the game.
2-1 vs Newcastle - Breaks Ben Arfa's leg with a 2 footed studs showing tackle.
He then gets dropped by his national team due to this incident and even the manager publicly questions his challenges.
Van Marwijk said he saw "no alternative" but to remove De Jong from his squad to play Moldova and Sweden in the upcoming Euro 2010 qualifiers. "I've seen the pictures back," Van Marwijk added in the Algemeen Dagblad newspaper. "It was a wild and unnecessary offence. He went in much too hard. It is unfortunate, especially since he does not need to do it. I have a problem with the way Nigel needlessly looks to push the limit. I am going to speak to him."
Just because he plays for your team doesn't make him innocent. Was Rooney innocent? No, and neither are other players, just because they don't get a deserved red card here and there doesn't magically make the event undone, it can end careers.
//rant off and apologies to other readers