When I started to play fm 14, I play as arsenal. Yes, I do. I do have problem like all u have. Missing CCC, horrible defending, etc. All made me having a nightmare friendly, 3 games lose. Then, I decide to make a major changes. From very fluid to fluid, attackin to control, high tempo to slow, and many more. I decided to make a more cautious approach. U know what happen next? Yes, 25 games unbeaten and 1st in league. From this experience, I know that it isn't the ME that having problem, it is your tactic and approach. Ignore that I play a great team. FM is a complex game mate. If u want ur player do all things what u want, why don't just use very rigid? Or just play FIFA instead?