Theatre of Dreams83
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FT 1-0 after 97 mins. Good cup tie tbh both teams nervy throughout and lacked quality. Thought Leeds were a little to overboard with some challenges. Was impressed by Creswell and the No11. Mengi was motm absolute beast. Bejger at RFB also had another good game.
Bleh. Ekstraklasa will never stop being a joke with all these ******* rich clubs poaching our local talent already at 15 years old.
Even talking about a 15-year-old is madness let alone anything else.
Most of the people want to escape poverty. Getting your kid chance to go to the better system where he'll get more opportunities (rather than just football) is a chance not many will pass. He'll get better coaches, better schools as well.Yeah that's another thing, I have no idea why this **** is even legal. International transfers shouldn't be allowed until kid is 18 and finished high school. With a 15-year old it's the parents calling all the shots and a lot of them just have $$$$ in mind.
Most of the people want to escape poverty. Getting your kid chance to go to the better system where he'll get more opportunities (rather than just football) is a chance not many will pass. He'll get better coaches, better schools as well.
Most parents want whats best for their child. There's plenty of examples of people moving from east to western countries in search for better life.
While it sucks for Polish football, its a great opportunity for the kid. Dude, at age of 15 being at the one of the biggest clubs in the world. Imagine the feeling.
Lets say you are a parent in a not-so-wealthy country where you have been working hard for 20-30 years for a 1000euros per month. You work hard for your kid so he wouldn't have to break his back like you do. Then there comes this opportunity, for your kid to attend better schools, live in prosperous country and generally have better options when making life choices. Heck, I would take it 10/10 times. And then you count in the football aspect. He might be in those 10% that make it. But even if he doesn't, chances are he'll still have better life then in some poor, Eastern country.The part you're missing is that 90% of those kids will never make it in top flight football. So imagine the feeling when great big club axes you and you're 18 with no clear future. Happens all the time.
Heck, my hometown club sold a 19-year old defender a while back. Makes a debut, plays half a season, goes to Italy for $5m. Yearly budget of the club is $10m, so you know what, fair enough, I can live with that. When they're poaching 15-year olds on junior contracts, what do clubs get? Bag of donuts and a handshake?
Plus if it doesn't work out, he at least made a professional debut here and proven himself, so he can always come back and still make a enough to become indepently wealthy.
It's not good for the kids and it isn't good for football anywhere apart from the leagues in 3 countries.
Lets say you are a parent in a not-so-wealthy country where you have been working hard for 20-30 years for a 1000euros per month. You work hard for your kid so he wouldn't have to break his back like you do. Then there comes this opportunity, for your kid to attend better schools, live in prosperous country and generally have better options when making life choices. Heck, I would take it 10/10 times. And then you count in the football aspect. He might be in those 10% that make it. But even if he doesn't, chances are he'll still have better life then in some poor, Eastern country.
Sure, for football it sucks. For those who are looking for a better life, its ******* amazing.
You are poor compared to Germany, France, UK etc. They are chasing better life.Star player in Ekstraklasa can pull half a million euros a year. Star player in 2nd division can pull maybe 70-80 thousand euro a year, which I'm pretty sure is a good money even in the UK. We're by no means a poor country and none of those guys are escaping poverty. It's literally just chasing millions.
And fair enough, chase millions, I would do that myself. But at least let the kid grow up.
I walk by a football academy sometimes with my dog. The language parents are using on the sidelines would shock a party of drunk sailors. They put huge pressure on the kids to succeed because all they see is $$$. It's madness.
You are poor compared to Germany, France, UK etc. They are chasing better life.
Sure there are parents who are scumbags, but most of them have their kids best interests in mind. How many talented kids turn pro? Chances are they dont. Why not maximize their chances in better systems?
That last point is good. But you are drawing a difficult question in what exactly is parenting. You SHOULD talk to your child about that kind of decision, tell them prons and cons of it. But when it stops being parents decision and becomes kids?
People will always look for better life, simple as that. We are always striving for something better. You shouldn't do that through your kids, and by that I mean dont chance your personal interests through them. You have to do what you think its best for them, not for you.
I know that oh so well. My country is still in deep sh*t. Thats why I left it 3 years ago and I'm not planning to return any time soon.Like I said, I have no problem at all with people transfering abroad very young. Like you said, better opportunities, better coaching, better money, of course they should leave. But not as literally kids.
And we were definitely dirt poor country when I was growing up. You had to wipe your *** with a magazine because they were toilet paper shortages. Some towns were still rebuilding from WW2 destruction in the 1980s.
But in 30 years we went from that to families on average wage owning 2 cars. Hardly a poor country anymore, we're just less rich.
Where you from?I know that oh so well. My country is still in deep sh*t. Thats why I left it 3 years ago and I'm not planning to return any time soon.
Yep, South east Europe.Where you from?
East Europe for the win...
Crazy how much we have grown in small time, but smaller country so easier to grow and not be very corrupt.